In desperate search of a wife

 It is day three of the ickie sickies at our house. We have been dealing with a stomach bug, coughs and colds. Today Puffin has a raging fever and his conversational efforts leave me dazed and confused. Will be taking him to the pediatrician later.


Most of the time the single mom thing is manageable. Most of the time I am well adjusted to doing it all alone. Most of the time. Right now I could really use someone to come and spell me, so I could run to the store to pick up some groceries, so I could take 5 minutes to run a brush through my hair, or even take a shower. Right now I could use someone to hold me and understand just how tired I am, offer to rub my back and watch the sickies for an hour so I can take a rest. Right now I could really do with someone to cook dinner while I sponge down the febrile child, read stories to calm hysterical ickie sickie, someone to do the laundry while I mop up the vomit.


I think what I really need more than anything is to just have someone to listen to me while I kvetch, to put their arms around me and tell me they love me, even tho showering hasn’t been high on my priority list.


Sigh. Any wives out there looking for a temporary position?

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  1. If it wasn’t the end of the semester, I’d come give you a break!

    Seriously, I tell DH all the time that we need a wife. Things would run so much more smoothly…well, most things, lol.

  2. chanief says:

    Ugh, sorry, that sound so rough. I hope everyone gets better soon and you get a few minutes to yourself.

  3. Batya says:

    I’m married, but it always seemed that my husband was in the army or abroad when I needed help the most.
    Just stay healthy!!

  4. Z! says:

    wishing everyone a Refuah Shaleimah. I wish I was there to hold your hand. Getting away sounds like a great idea!
    I’m surprised a certain someone hasn’t chimed in with a criticism on your part for not being stronger in managing all this. Of course, in that person’s opinion, you should have inverted the days, and sent them to your Ex’s!!

  5. hadassahsabo says:

    thank you all for your well wishes – all doing better TG.

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