heinous or harmless

Shadchan Responsibility – heinous or harmless

Scenario : First date, young man takes young lady to dinner after their references have all been checked and found to be stellar. They have a lovely meal and are getting along well. It comes…

Another Frumster Files WWYD?

This happened to a friend of mine. She was cruising the frum-o-sphere in search of her very own KoD and came across an interesting profile. The guy sounded sweet and sincere, and had many similarities…

Heinous or Harmless – Interesting Quandary

So I am cleaning up the house, getting rid of everything that I can, as we already have a furnished house in NY to move to, so the less we bring the better for everyone….

Heinous or Harmless – family yichus* in dating

Where to start with this one? Sadie desperately wants to be a married lady. She meets and falls in love (without a shadchan {matchmaker}, tsk tsk) with Hershel. He is everything she wants in a…

Heinous or Harmless – laundry

So, apartment living means using the laundry room. We are lucky to have one on each floor. With one washer and one dryer. Yesterday I had about 5 loads to do. We are not supposed…

Heinous or Harmless?

My Eleven year old son was given this tee shirt by a family member. He was very excited to wear it. I am horrified at the message – an eleven year old yeshivah boy needs…

Heinous or Harmless – Tailor Etiquette

I was just at a high-end tailor – I have a GORGEOUS simcha suit that needed to be taken in and adjusted. For regular hemming, lining, kick pleat sewing up (Ok I don’t do that,…

Heinous or Harmless – gift giving

  You are given a gift of money by a relative for a birthday or anniversary. You take that money, go into a store and buy something for someone else with that money. You also…

The Original Heinous or Harmless

  (I am reposting this due to popular demand – it was an issue back in the summer when I posted it, and this kind of behaviour remains an issue for some people even now,…

Frumster Files #78546 – Heinous or Harmless

    While out at dinner the other night I watched a couple that was obviously on a date. You could feel the nerves. It was kind of cute to watch them – he was…

Heinous or Harmless? #754

  As you all know I have recently had the good fortune to marry the love of my life, the KoD. Between the two of us we have seven great children, aged 6 to almost…