heinous or harmless

Heinous or Harmless – supper

We have a rule in our house, no matter where you are or who you are with, everyone is at the supper table at 6pm, and all friends must return to their own houses. The…

Medical Reports in dating – Heinous or Harmless

From Hashkafa.com Can I see a medical report about your sexual / emotional health? Is this an appropriate question when dating BTs? Is this done? Is it offensive? Is it considered a reasonable request? Is…

Heinous or Harmless – dating world

You have a single girlfriend who is, as they say, in the parsha ie dating for marriage. She needs guidance. You are sympathetic to her story and want to help her all you can. However…

Heinous or Harmless – marital possessions

This stems from an interesting discussion I had with the KoD last night. We started off talking about my numerous crystal serving platters that I unearthed during yesterday’s marathon declutterfication. Most of them I probably…

WWYD – sleepover

(Not my story, as told to me by a friend) Your young child is invited to a sleepover. You know the family from school. The parents are divorced, but have remained within the community. Mother…

Heinous or Harmless – Dating

From Matzav.com Dear Matzav.com Editor, My heart is so broken. I have been carrying a bleeding heart for over a month and cannot withstand it anymore. I do not want to tell my parents nor…

Heinous or Harmless

Sixth grader is to be sent home from school due to an act of perceived disobedience. The principal makes the child call home to tell his / her mother / father that s/he is being…

Butt yourself out of my life, woman!

Ok so I was stupid enough to go to the local kosher store in my skants. My skirt was black, almost ankle length, very kosher, but the pink sweatpants underneath couldn’t help but peek through….

WWYD? – dating

A single girlfriend of mine (please forgive me for shamelessly stealing your story but you did tweet it) was recently set up with a bloke. They had some phone conversations before they actually met, to…

Heinous or Harmless – terminal illness

Lifted shamelessly from Hashkafa.com (I edited it for grammar) ___________________________ Inspired by an article in this week’s Mishpacha. So there was an article about this couple who kept secret the fact that the husband’s father…

Heinous or Harmless – Discipline

I have written before about keeping promises and carrying out threats. I was tested on this on Friday night. For the longest time I have had a deal with my youngest son. That if he…

Heinous or Harmless – Guests

My kids have friends over for dinner quite often. One of these kids is like a son to me. He and my son have been buddies since preschool many moons ago. They are comfortable in…