frumster files

Frumster Files #78547

Not too long ago I received an email from a guy I had briefly communicated with on Frumster. He told me he had been thinking of me and wanted to just catch up. We just…

The Original Heinous or Harmless

  (I am reposting this due to popular demand – it was an issue back in the summer when I posted it, and this kind of behaviour remains an issue for some people even now,…

Frumster Files #78546 – Heinous or Harmless

    While out at dinner the other night I watched a couple that was obviously on a date. You could feel the nerves. It was kind of cute to watch them – he was…

Frumster Files – #78545

  A FaceBook Friend of mine, let’s call him Yitz, put this up as his status update.   Would you date this woman? From Frumster: “This is what I am looking for in a mate:…

2008 retrospective

I started writing a look back at the year that was, but the first draft ended up being a play by play of the guys that I dated. I should be blushing here, right, but…

The Story of How the King of Diamonds won the Queen of Hearts.

Way back in the mists of time, QoH was clicking through the Frumster profiles looking to find a King, one who would treat her right and be a good role model for her little princes….

Secrets and Lies

So you finally found someone that you want to date, and shockingly he wants to date you too. Awesome. But you know you have baggage. You know all about your own baggage and there is…

When it rains it pours!

Attention single guys / girls! Get a blog and write on it. Write about your dating woes! You know why? People eventually start emailing you with suggestions for a shidduch. Initially I was very skeptical…

Frumster Files – Closing Arguments

OK, we all know couples who met on Frumster, got married and live a very happy life together. If I recall correctly Frumster boasts over 1100 matches made (it doesn’t say marriages, it says matches….interesting…

Frumster Files #78544

Dear Sweet Naïve little boy,   You and other little men who have barely grown a chest hair take great enjoyment in emailing me, and emailing me often. My polite response that I am not…

Frumster Files #78543

Dear Dude #1,   Let me just tell you a little secret. If you want to date me, or even have a conversation or an email exchange with me, your initial email to me has…

Are men intimidated by women who have opinions and intelligence?

I recently tweeted this statement and it brought me a flurry of tweetbacks and emails, and I have been encouraged to expand on it. So I thusly do so.  While writing this article a friend…