dating

Secrets and Lies

So you finally found someone that you want to date, and shockingly he wants to date you too. Awesome. But you know you have baggage. You know all about your own baggage and there is…

When it rains it pours!

Attention single guys / girls! Get a blog and write on it. Write about your dating woes! You know why? People eventually start emailing you with suggestions for a shidduch. Initially I was very skeptical…

Frumster Files #78543

Dear Dude #1,   Let me just tell you a little secret. If you want to date me, or even have a conversation or an email exchange with me, your initial email to me has…

Are men intimidated by women who have opinions and intelligence?

I recently tweeted this statement and it brought me a flurry of tweetbacks and emails, and I have been encouraged to expand on it. So I thusly do so.  While writing this article a friend…

Things NOT to do on a date

And these things have SO happened to me, and people that I know. Thanks to all my buddies who emailed me their horror stories.This was fun compiling, and boy am i glad that i didn’t…

Frumster Files #60879

So what’s your Frumster / dating website etiquette, folks? If you are emailing and speaking on the phone with someone and it looks like a date is in the offing, do you suspend your membership?…

Frumster Files 60878

Open Letter to Ex-date Yes, as a writer, I take plenty of poetic license. I find the writing process to be cathartic and therapeutic.   Nowhere in any of my blog posts have I ever…

Motzei Shabbat Musings

Shabbat gives us a wonderful opportunity for reflection. Add to that the fact that we are in the month of Elul, introspection is the way to go.   I make no secret of the fact…

Frumster Files 60876

Dear Ex-date, I cannot believe how stupid I was that I neglected to suspend my membership before I logged out last time. But that doesn’t give you carte blanche to ogle my profile at your…

Dating Decrapitude!

There is a lovely boardwalk in a city not too far from me. The benches there have inscriptions on them. There is one bench that bears the legend “For The Love of My Life”. This is…